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		<title>surf&#8217;s up, greenwillow authors!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 18:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cindy pon</dc:creator>
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i&#8217;m sick as a dog and on antibiotic horse pills to boot!
(i&#8217;m a Big Whiny Baby when i&#8217;m sick. =)
but things that make me feel better :
1. working on Secret Project of World Domination.
2. reading gail carriger&#8217;s Blameless.
3. seeing the fotos of megan teaching me how to
&#8220;surf&#8221; for the first time over at the greenwillow [...]]]></description>
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<p>i&#8217;m sick as a dog and on antibiotic horse pills to boot!<br />
(i&#8217;m a Big Whiny Baby when i&#8217;m sick. =)</p>
<p>but things that make me feel better :</p>
<p>1. working on Secret Project of World Domination.</p>
<p>2. reading gail carriger&#8217;s Blameless.</p>
<p>3. seeing the fotos of megan teaching me how to<br />
&#8220;surf&#8221; for the first time over at the <a href="http://greenwillowblog.com/?p=2271#comments" target="_blank">greenwillow blog</a>.<br />
i miss my author friend!</p>
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		<title>this is how we feel about mondays&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 04:17:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cindy pon</dc:creator>
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*a classic foto of sweet pea and munchkin.
i think sweet pea is about 19 months here and
munchkin is 2 months. as you can see,
it&#8217;s the end of the world, and she is deeply
offended. ha! i couldn&#8217;t tell you whose expression
makes me chuckle more in this foto. =)
short entry, when i should not be posting at [...]]]></description>
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<p>*a classic foto of sweet pea and munchkin.<br />
i think sweet pea is about 19 months here and<br />
munchkin is 2 months. as you can see,<br />
it&#8217;s the end of the world, and she is deeply<br />
offended. ha! i couldn&#8217;t tell you whose expression<br />
makes me chuckle more in this foto. =)</p>
<p>short entry, when i should not be posting at all.<br />
back today from a mini getaway just 30 miles from<br />
home at a fancy resort in belated celebration of<br />
the love&#8217;s birthday. he was suprised (he thought<br />
we were going to seattle, ha!) but had a good time.</p>
<p>i ate too much (no fotos, alas) and too well.<br />
unfortunately, friday night, i finally succumbed to<br />
munchkin&#8217;s cold and sore throat. =( i&#8217;m sick.<br />
i guess it must be october. to all the parents<br />
out there&#8211;may we survive this oct/april cold<br />
and flu season. </p>
<p>hoping mad men will make my cold feel a<br />
little better tonight, along with michelle moran&#8217;s<br />
<em>cleopatra&#8217;s daughter</em>. which i&#8217;m enjoying very<br />
much. &#8220;happy&#8221; monday, all! 8) it could be worse.<br />
look at poor sweet pea&#8230;</p>
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		<title>breaking the bad mojo</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 04:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cindy pon</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[author's life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[megan whalen turner]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neil gaiman]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#8217;m back from my stupendous tremendous
visit to nyc! i can&#8217;t imagine having had a
better trip&#8211;except for more time to spend
with my friends and explore the city. but
considering how long i was there, i had a
very full and lovely visit.
last week started badly. i found out i needed
to drive near two hours to the court up [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m back from my stupendous tremendous<br />
visit to nyc! i can&#8217;t imagine having had a<br />
better trip&#8211;except for more time to spend<br />
with my friends and explore the city. but<br />
considering how long i was there, i had a<br />
very full and lovely visit.</p>
<p>last week started badly. i found out i needed<br />
to drive near two hours to the court up in OC<br />
for my speeding ticket. while spending too<br />
many hours on hold to try and understand the<br />
situation, my website got hacked. thankfully,<br />
it didn&#8217;t seem to be malicious (so we hope!) but<br />
more vanity related.</p>
<p>honestly, i feared for my trip to nyc. i was<br />
afraid my bad mojo would follow me like the<br />
pungent scent of durian. but the day started<br />
wonderfully when i got an email from one of<br />
my favorite authors, megan whalen turner, that<br />
she had just finished silver phoenix and really<br />
enjoyed it. of course, i squeed and wished i<br />
could throw cupcakes at her.</p>
<p>then i got picked up for the airport but instead<br />
of the 10 person shuttle i had hired, i got my<br />
own personal town car!! free upgrade! wOOt!<br />
i even forgave the driver for opening the window<br />
and shouting MORON at a pedestrian when we<br />
got to the airport. =O</p>
<p>couldn&#8217;t have had better weather when i arrived.<br />
had just missed the showers. loved my room in<br />
the murray hill boutique hotel (tho i didn&#8217;t take<br />
a foto of it, boo!). on friday morning, bright and<br />
early, i wondered out at 10.30am (ha!) to go pick<br />
up some treats for my visit to harpercollins and<br />
meeting the greenwillowites who worked so<br />
hard on my debut in one aspect or another.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1135" title="nyc1" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc1.jpg" alt="nyc1" width="400" height="294" /></a></p>
<p>my writing friend wendy had recommended<br />
<strong>crumbs</strong> and what a great rec that was! the<br />
day was gorgeous and i really enjoyed walking&#8211;<br />
something i don&#8217;t do enough in san diego.</p>
<p>i was so excited to visit my publisher that<br />
i totally failed to take ANY fotos. haha! i got<br />
a grand tour, saw my book in a case with<br />
neil gaiman&#8217;s (eee!) and had lunch with everyone<br />
at greenwillow. we intently discussed bunnies,<br />
flowers and cupcakes&#8211;important topics in<br />
children&#8217;s publishing. 8)</p>
<p>i also got a very very early glimpse of possible<br />
ideas for the sequel&#8217;s cover. no matter what,<br />
i know that chris will do a fantastic job with it!<br />
very exciting!!</p>
<p>i then went to the silk spa near union square<br />
for a massage! it was a very nice spa and i&#8217;d<br />
highly recommend it. then i toodled over a few<br />
streets east and had dinner with my friend, chris.<br />
then groom to be, now a married man. and his<br />
honey. i&#8217;ve known chris since i was fifteen so<br />
over two <em>decades</em>. his now wife, lane,<br />
had recommended ippudo which was DELICIOUS!<br />
see for yourself!</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1136" title="nyc2" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc2.jpg" alt="nyc2" width="400" height="294" /></a></p>
<p>pork buns! like cha shu!</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc3.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1141" title="nyc3" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc3.jpg" alt="nyc3" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>my personal favorite&#8211;agedashi tofu!</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc4.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1137" title="nyc4" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc4.jpg" alt="nyc4" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>deep fried potatoes with a delicious<br />
dipping sauce.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc5.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1138" title="nyc5" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc5.jpg" alt="nyc5" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>i ordered the miso ramen. SO GOOD!<br />
very hearty and def comfort food.<br />
lane got the same.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc6.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1139" title="nyc6" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc6.jpg" alt="nyc6" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>chris ordered the special, wasabi ramen!</p>
<p>i then went to visit their new home in<br />
williamsburg, brooklyn.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc7.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1140" title="nyc7" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc7.jpg" alt="nyc7" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>the next morning, stumbled out of the hotel<br />
again bright and early at 10.30am (ha!). i<br />
had a date with my friend juliet and had chosen<br />
to meet at the le pain on 84th and madison. this<br />
is one that the love and i used to walk to and<br />
was a favorite place of ours to eat.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc8.jpg"><img src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc8.jpg" alt="nyc8" title="nyc8" width="400" height="300" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1143" /></a></p>
<p>we started with a bread basket and i slathered<br />
everything i ate in a nutella equivalent spread. YUM!</p>
<p>we also shared a fruit salad and a veggie quiche,<br />
but we were so engrossed in chatting i forgot to<br />
take fotos! =O</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc10.jpg"><img src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc10.jpg" alt="nyc10" title="nyc10" width="400" height="300" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1142" /></a></p>
<p>they have amazing breads and pastries as<br />
well as soup, salads and sandwiches!</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc11.jpg"><img src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/nyc11.jpg" alt="nyc11" title="nyc11" width="300" height="389" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1144" /></a></p>
<p>i really really <em>really</em> wanted to buy one<br />
of their pastries but knew i had a brunch<br />
date the next morning and all my other meals<br />
set. *stares longingly at foto*</p>
<p>ten fotos and that is my first day and a half<br />
back in new york city since 2000&#8211;when i<br />
graduated from nyu! more posts and fotos<br />
to follow!! =D</p>
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		<title>cindy&#8217;s wild ride</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 04:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cindy pon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[*a la mr.toad&#8217;s wild ride at disneyland.
what a weekend! i&#8217;m glad i&#8217;m here
to tell you about it! a playgroup mom friend
was very kind to host a book club meeting at
her house for Silver Phoenix on friday night.
composed of two book clubs and two playgroups,
we had a group of women who mostly did not read
young adult [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*a la mr.toad&#8217;s wild ride at disneyland.</p>
<p>what a weekend! i&#8217;m glad i&#8217;m here<br />
to tell you about it! a playgroup mom friend<br />
was very kind to host a book club meeting at<br />
her house for Silver Phoenix on friday night.<br />
composed of two book clubs and two playgroups,<br />
we had a group of women who mostly did not read<br />
young adult or fantasy&#8211;and all seemed to enjoy<br />
the book and were eager to discuss it.</p>
<p>i had so much fun and didn&#8217;t get home until after<br />
11pm.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/bnhb1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1037" title="bnhb1" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/bnhb1.jpg" alt="bnhb1" width="300" height="440" /></a></p>
<p>on sunday, i had a signing at bn in huntington<br />
beach. many of my LA / OC friends have been waiting<br />
very patiently for this! and i spent the morning picking<br />
up extraordinary desserts mini-cupcakes for the<br />
event and left an hour early to get to the bookstore.<br />
never again.</p>
<p>i got stuck in oceanside for 40 minutes going all of<br />
two miles. (i think there was an accident ahead?) and<br />
when i got onto the 73N&#8211;i tried to make up time wailing<br />
to a weezer song to destress.</p>
<p>bad idea.</p>
<p>guess who got pulled over for a speeding ticket?</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/margie.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1038" title="margie" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/margie.jpg" alt="margie" width="275" height="369" /></a><br />
*<a href="http://margaretstohl.typepad.com/" target="_blank">margie stohl</a> asked so many great questions<br />
at my signing. BEAUTIFUL CREATURES is out 12/09.</p>
<p>one time, while driving the same route home from<br />
college, i got a speeding ticket because i wasn&#8217;t looking<br />
in the rear view mirror (like this time!) too distracted<br />
from reciting a recent poem i had written.<br />
(poems are meant to be recited aloud!)</p>
<p>argh.</p>
<p>and when i told the officer i was late<br />
for an author signing, he said what?! like i had said<br />
i&#8217;m missing the mothership and they will take off without<br />
me or something. *sighs*</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/tracy.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1039" title="tracy" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/tracy.jpg" alt="tracy" width="400" height="317" /></a><br />
*i&#8217;ve known tracy from online for nearly a decade!<br />
so lovely to finally have the pleasure of meeting in person!!</p>
<p>next time, i&#8217;ll know to leave at least TWO hours early.<br />
i arrived five minutes late (augh!!) but the bn events<br />
coordinator was so nice and said they never started on<br />
the dot, anyway.</p>
<p><a href="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/inkies.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1040" title="inkies" src="http://cindypon.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/inkies.jpg" alt="inkies" width="450" height="330" /></a><br />
*enchanted inkpot writers representing!<br />
<a href="http://gretchenmcneil.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">gretchen</a>, <a href="http://web.mac.com/lkeyes/TempusFugit/Welcome.html" target="_blank">lia</a>, me and <a href="http://stirlingbennett.livejournal.com/" target="_blank">amaris</a>.</p>
<p>it was a special signing because it was the<br />
first that my mom and sister were able to attend!<br />
it was also the first time that i actually read<br />
an excerpt from Silver Phoenix (my favorite scene<br />
in the book). we also had a fantastic question<br />
and answer session and at the end of the signing,<br />
a tween came over to ask me about the book.</p>
<p>she was very excited about it and asked her dad<br />
if she could get it. and she could. =D</p>
<p>the cupcakes were very well received, altho i<br />
only had space in my ice chest for one box (the<br />
chocolate ones) and my carrot mini cupcakes melted.<br />
(the frosting and the white chocolate shavings.) they<br />
tasted great still, however.</p>
<p>but they sort of looked like me by the time i arrived<br />
at the bookstore. =O<br />
everyone who had come to see and support me<br />
(friends new and old) were so kind and said they<br />
had a great time. i only wish i had the chance to<br />
speak with everyone longer. i always wish that.<br />
i felt very &#8220;official&#8221; when i saw that my event had<br />
been tweeted with fotos and videos uploaded during<br />
the fact. haha! love my friends! =D</p>
<p>and finally, i leave you <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUm8JbQDG9E" target="_blank">the weezer song</a> that<br />
was the cause for my speeding ticket. it&#8217;s one<br />
of my favorites by them.</p>
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		<title>in which the author drowns her writerly angst in popcorn chicken and boba</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cindy pon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[it&#8217;s official.the hardest part of writing thenovel for me is THE DREADED MIDDLE.beginnings are not difficult(other than taking that initial leap)and endings are a natural closure towhat came before.
it&#8217;s all that stuff in between thatdrives me bonkers as the writer. ha!on friday, i wrote in the afternoon whilethe bubs napped and it was the first [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family:verdana;">it&#8217;s official.</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">the hardest part of writing the</span><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">novel for me is THE DREADED MIDDLE.<br />beginnings are not difficult<br />(other than taking that initial leap)<br />and endings are a natural closure to<br />what came before.</p>
<p>it&#8217;s all that stuff in between that<br />drives me bonkers as the writer. ha!<br />on friday, i wrote in the afternoon while<br />the bubs napped and it was the first day<br />i could not hit 1k in words. it was like<br />pulling teeth, and i was very disappointed.</p>
<p>on saturday morning, i felt so discouraged.<br />instead of going to cardio kickboxing, i<br />surfed online, had a pity party of one on<br />facebook, and basically was a huge lump<br />of angst and inertia. (sighs)<br />i tried to find full episodes of mad men<br />(season one) online to watch to make<br />myself feel better.</p>
<p>they are impossible to find.<br />what i could find had chinese subtitles<br />(ha!) which were fine, but the lag was<br />so horrific i watched one show in increments<br />of one to two second intervals! but my<br />devotion to don draper was that huge.<br />i finished watching the pilot, which was<br />brilliant. now <span style="font-style:italic;">that</span> show has some excellent<br />writers&#8211;who probably do not sit in their<br />pajamas past noon on saturdays moping.</p>
<p>finally, by one o&#8217;clock, i decided to grab<br />taiwanese food (always a comfort!) with<br />macbook pro in tow. the idea was that<br />i&#8217;d do some reading and brainstorming.<br />but the popcorn chicken meal and cappucino<br />boba must have helped, as i wrote an<br />unexpected 999 words yesterday. yay!<br />i&#8217;m not sure what will happen today, however.</p>
<p>the irony is that i am smack dab<br />in the very middle of the novel. all<br />my writing friends have given excellent<br />advice. in the end, it&#8217;s something i&#8217;ll have<br />to unravel myself. i hope popcorn chicken<br />meals with boba are not the sole solution.<br />if so, i&#8217;m in serious trouble&#8230;<br /></span></p>
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